Before the Spaces Fill: How To Give Yourself a Soulful Holiday

By November 17, 2014 6 Comments

The holidays are coming… are you ready?

The answer depends on who you’re talking to.

If it’s just an acquaintance, you may answer courteously.

But, if you talk to a soul friend — someone who you trust — you might begin to confide how you’re really doing. Inside.

Are you stressing out about what will or won’t be happening?

Or maybe you’re so excited with anticipation — filled with dreams — imagining the memories you want to create.

But you’re not sure how it will all turn out…

…I can’t wait.  This year is special but overwhelming. How am I going to get everything done in time?  

…I’m not sure what we’ll be doing.  The plans are up in the air/falling apart.

…I love the holidays.  But, I’m longing for something special with God and my family this year.

Maybe you’ve numbed yourself to the holidays because you’re soul-weary.

Perhaps you’re like me, wanting to do something different this year.

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